#Look for Flaws in the People We're Not Dating
So you and your boyfriend/girlfriend have been together for a while now and things are going really well. Super. You're starting to think this could be it. It's time to commit. It's time to settle down with this special person who likes Shaun of the Dead just as much as you, who also hates peanut butter and jelly, who likes it when you do that thing with the thing in bed.
Now what? Well, if you're like most people, you're going to start wondering about the possibility of never being with someone else romantically ever again.
then you start looking for flaws in other people who are trying to come in to your life , i'm going to list few flaws we look at in the people we Are not dating :
1. Absent-minded – Preoccupied to the extent of being unaware of one’s immediate surroundings. Abstracted, daydreaming, inattentive, oblivious, forgetful.
2. Abusive – Characterized by improper infliction of physical or psychological maltreatment towards another.
3 .Addict – One who is addicted to a compulsive activity. Examples: gambling, drugs, sex.
4. Aimless – Devoid of direction or purpose.
5. Alcoholic – A person who drinks alcoholic substances habitually and to excess.
6. Anxious – Full of mental distress or uneasiness because of fear of danger or misfortune; greatly worried; solicitous.
7. Arrogant – Having or displaying a sense of overbearing self-worth or self-importance. Inclined to social exclusiveness and who rebuff the advances of people considered inferior. Snobbish.
8. Audacious – Recklessly bold in defiance of convention, propriety, law, or the like; insolent; braze, disobedient.
9. Bad Habit – A revolting personal habit. Examples: picks nose, spits tobacco, drools, bad body odour.
10 .Bigmouth – A loud-mouthed or gossipy person.
11. Bigot – One who is strongly partial to one’s own group, religion, race, or politics and is intolerant of those who differ.
12 .Blunt – Characterized by directness in manner or speech; without subtlety or evasion. Frank, callous, insensitive, brusque.
13. Bold – In a bad sense, too forward; taking undue liberties; over assuming or confident; lacking proper modesty or restraint; rude; impudent. Abrupt, brazen, cheeky, brassy, audacious.
14 .Callous – They are hardened to emotions, rarely showing any form of it in expression. Unfeeling. Cold.
15 .Childish – Marked by or indicating a lack of maturity; puerile.
# Your hormones go wild.
When you fall in love, your cheeks flush, your heart beats faster, your palms are sweaty and your head starts spinning. This is all thanks to a rush of chemicals and hormones that flood your brain and body when you fall in love.
This leaves you with feelings of euphoria similar to an endorphin-induced “runner's high.”
There's nothing you can do about this; love physically makes you crazy.
# You wake up and go to sleep thinking of someone other than yourself.
From the moment you wake up in the morning to the moment you go to sleep at night, the person you love occupies at least some part of your mind. How does your brain even know to think of that person first thing in the morning? Doesn't it have other more important things to worry about?
The truth is this phenomenon is usually subconscious and automatic, almost like your mind is programmed to do so. Even throughout the day, that person stays staunchly in the back of your mind.
As crazy as it may be, it is nice to think of someone beside you every once in a while.
# You smile when you're alone.
We've all seen them: the smile texters. Smile texting is the perfect example of what happens when you're falling in love. You experience weird, giddy feelings of happiness, even when you're not physically with that special person.
You might smile when he or she texts you, when you hear a certain song, see a picture on Facebook or when you just think of that person.
In general, little things like that will make you smile more than usual because you are just so blissfully in love (and because of all those happy hormones flowing through your bloodstream).
People may look at you funny and wonder why you're so happy, but you don't even mind.
# You do things outside of your comfort zone.
Along the same lines, falling in love will make you do things you never even considered doing before. Boys, that may mean taking a yoga class or going to get a pedicure with your girlfriend (they feel really good, it's okay to admit it).
Girls, that may mean watching “SportsCenter” for two hours or playing a couple games of FIFA. Of course, doing these things can open your mind to new activities you might enjoy. Doing them with the one you love is a great bonding experience, too.
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